In this article, let’s discuss an important issue in relationships: complimenting. I’m sure many of you have faced a similar situation. You attack yourself, calling yourself “ugly” and “nothing special,” but you constantly compliment your girlfriend on her beauty. So how do you deal with this situation?

Should You Compliment Looks Without Actually Finding Them Attractive?

That’s a question many people have asked themselves. My advice is to be genuine and sincere in every compliment. If you don’t truly find your girlfriend attractive, don’t say it. In this case, it’s not about seeking physical attractiveness, but rather appreciating your loved one from within. Respect and value her not only for her looks, but also for her kindness, intelligence, sense of humor, unconditional love, and support.

How to Keep This Secret?

I understand your good intentions of showing respect and love to your girlfriend. However, I advise against sharing this issue with her. It will only cause more hurt and damage her self-esteem. Instead, it’s best to seek psychological counseling to address your own conflicts and doubts. A professional will help you understand why you chose someone you don’t find attractive and work together to find a solution.

Don’t Hurt Her Feelings

Lastly, I want to remind you not to share your thoughts with your girlfriend. It will only lead to unnecessary pain. This matter should only be shared with your counseling expert. Whether you can resolve this situation or not, the information and thoughts you’ve shared won’t be helpful for your girlfriend. They will only cause harm. Keep this secret and seek help from a professional to find the best way to handle this situation.

Conclusion

Life is sometimes filled with challenges and conflicts in relationships. Complimenting in the right and sincere way is an important factor in building love and trust. However, you should never lie or compliment something you don’t genuinely feel. Respect and appreciate the beauty of your loved one from their inner qualities. And remember, when faced with difficulties in relationships, always seek help from experienced and knowledgeable experts in psychology for appropriate advice.